in phase and outta phase not determined by the pickup, its determined by the wiring of the positive(hot) and negative(gnd) wire of the pickup
stock strat wiring, both pickup are wired in phase and parallel together, to get the 2 and 4 position sound
if you wanna out of phase, the sound will be much lower output and thus softer sounding when amplified also can be quite thin sounding. It has its own character thou
The basic of wiring outta phase is that you need at least 2 pickup combined, using either only 1 of the pickup that you wanna combined, switch the hot and gnd of one pickup(as in the usual hot wire from the pickup will be your ground wire and usual ground wire be hot wire) and combined with the 2nd pickup(this one, wiring still the same, hot still be hot and gnd still be ground.
the easy way be using a 2pdt switch to switch back and forth in phase and outta phase setting. Most common be push pull pot.
For the wiring diagram, you might like to google round for the info, theres quite a number of sites that have the instructions and explanation of the in phase outta phase wiring plus what make it in phase and outta phase
oh, this forum and the site got lotsa info and wiring mods, you might like to check it out.
http://guitarnuts2.proboards45.com/index.cgi (this one the forum)
http://guitarnuts2.proboards45.com/index.cgi?board=schem&action=display&thread=1153172741 ( This one, the most over the top strat wiring mods you can have, without changing the exterior look, and will work. If you want choices, this one the bomb, series, parallel, in phase and outta phase all in one)